Its amazing how each decision sets the future. Look back and try imagine where you would be had you decided to do one little thing differently; weather it was study instead of going out, quitting instead of sticking with something, or even just talking to a person for the first time which resulted in one of the most amazing friendships ever. Each decision carrys a result. It can be good or bad, big or small, but its there.
We reevalutate the big decisions in our lifes; "Is this career the right one for me" etc, but we never take the time to evaluate the little decisions that set up things as large as the meeting of a best friend, the step to the happiest days of our lifes etc.
Don't let anyone ever tell you the future is decided, and don't ever take a decision for granted because each decision defines your life and who you are.... Big or small.
When you have to make a choice and don't make it, that is in itself a choice.
- William Jones
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Welcome Back
Well this is an odd feeling... After spending 20 minutes trying to remember my password and user name, then finding a help area I have finally logged back on.
A lot has changed since the last blog I posted which was over a year back I think.
Amusingly, the topic of this blog is the same as the first blog I posted on this site, "People"
We as humans are terribly complex and unpredictable people. It is not just our physical attributes that are unique but our personalities and beliefs are also unique to each individual. Whilst this is a beautiful thing for us to have as a human race it also is the root of many issues, complications and fights. Currently, it seems that with a few people, one in particular, that the way we feel towards each other changes in every conversation that begins. Heck! It can change multiple times per conversation. This astounds me because I want things to be happy with this person, I want to communicate fluently and happily, so why cant this happen?
Its amazing how a person can have you thinking taking a giant plunge. This plunge alters from person to person depending once again on our personalities but the result is the same. The funniest thing about this is those people who force up to take the risky plunge, are often ones that hurt us. It may not be instantaneous, but eventually, chances are those who you unconventionally put your trust in, they will let your down. I know, it recently happened. No matter how much I want it to be different and tell myself it is, tell myself it will work, the result is the same. It wont. Once again it may not be instant that it doesn't work, but I don't want that suffering at the end, even for the happiness at the beginning. (I just realised I've gone on a tangent that has nothing to do with the start of this topic.... All well)
Well there is one poorly written piece, with no cohesion what so ever, but fuck it. What needs to be out there is out there
A lot has changed since the last blog I posted which was over a year back I think.
Amusingly, the topic of this blog is the same as the first blog I posted on this site, "People"
We as humans are terribly complex and unpredictable people. It is not just our physical attributes that are unique but our personalities and beliefs are also unique to each individual. Whilst this is a beautiful thing for us to have as a human race it also is the root of many issues, complications and fights. Currently, it seems that with a few people, one in particular, that the way we feel towards each other changes in every conversation that begins. Heck! It can change multiple times per conversation. This astounds me because I want things to be happy with this person, I want to communicate fluently and happily, so why cant this happen?
Its amazing how a person can have you thinking taking a giant plunge. This plunge alters from person to person depending once again on our personalities but the result is the same. The funniest thing about this is those people who force up to take the risky plunge, are often ones that hurt us. It may not be instantaneous, but eventually, chances are those who you unconventionally put your trust in, they will let your down. I know, it recently happened. No matter how much I want it to be different and tell myself it is, tell myself it will work, the result is the same. It wont. Once again it may not be instant that it doesn't work, but I don't want that suffering at the end, even for the happiness at the beginning. (I just realised I've gone on a tangent that has nothing to do with the start of this topic.... All well)
Well there is one poorly written piece, with no cohesion what so ever, but fuck it. What needs to be out there is out there
"Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."
- Bob Marley
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